I need help to connect my tivo to my Ilo dvr. I tried following the instructions to treat the dvr like a vcr by just connecting the coaxial cables but this does not work. I need to know specifically what rca cables to connect and where. Also, I would like to be able to use either the tivo or the dvr at any one time. I tried using a splitter, but I have already split my cable signal which also provides my internet and telephone service and is on a router. If splitting, once again, is the only way to make this work then please point me to specific instructions where I can try this. Any help would be gratefully appreciated.